Sex feels good because God is quite intent on having men and their wives produce children. Therefore He made sex a pleasurable experience, His way of encouraging them to copulate.
However, mankind has perverted the entire sex paradigm.
They fornicate outside the marriage parameter only to experience the selfish pleasure of it. They further debase it by having same-sex partners gratifying each other, thus moving even further away from producing children. And finally they bend sexuality itself by morphing men into women and women into men, or transgenderism.
The whole idea of this systematic perversion is to spit on God and His plan for humanity. By bastardizing sexuality, God’s enemies hope to thwart God’s command to “be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 9:7).”
In addition, by debasing it with homosexuality and transgenderism they mean to say, “Hey God, you did not create us in your image
, we can find greater pleasure outside your commands.”
“So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” Genesis 1:27
“For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.” Romans 1:26-27
What they fail to realize is that man is not god, and therefore cannot make his own rules. In the end, those who break God’s commands will pay dearly for it. See The Consequences of Sin.
“Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Galatians 5: 19-21
Venery needs the curb and not the spur. Immoral, unnatural, and inordinate sexual desires are to be turned off and conquered. In other words, sin can be overcome.
“Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.” Colossians 3: 5,6
The gift of sex is to be enjoyed only by man and wife. Get with the program. Become
a true Christian today.
Romance should take place after marriage. Otherwise unscrupulous men and women can use it to lure the gullible into thinking that something real is afoot, when in fact it’s not.
It is a useful tool to spur married couples into building their families (i.e., into making babies). In addition, romantically satisfied couples usually create well-disposed parents.
Romance is not for impressionable teenagers to dabble with, nor is it for older folks who cannot or will not have children to fancy themselves with.
The purpose of marriage is to create a family with children. Likewise, the purpose of romance is to help multiply and strengthen said family.
“Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.” Psalm 127:4,5
“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer. May her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.” Proverbs 5: 18,19
Still, for those who can’t have or don’t want children, God made the marriage covenant available as well whereby they can satiate their sexual desires, even though in their case staying single while exercising abstinence is the better option.
“It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman. But since sexual immorality is so rampant, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.” 1 Corinthians 7:1,2
See The Biblical Marriage Blueprint
Mankind has a penchant for beauty, especially for beautiful women. However, physical beauty does not necessarily equate goodness. In fact, beauty can become quite the corrupting influence.
“Your heart became proud on account of your beauty, and you corrupted your wisdom because of your splendor.” Ezekiel 28:17,18
Not even Yeshua was physically attractive.
“He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him.” Isaiah 53:2
True beauty of the heart is what God looks for.
“But the YAHUAH said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The YAHUAH does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the YAHUAH looks at the heart.’ ” 1 Samuel 16:7
Such inner disposition is even more stringent for women.
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3,4
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30
Still, that does not mean we must shun beauty in general.
“God has made everything beautiful in its time.” Ecclesiastes 3:11
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is beautiful, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8
“You are altogether beautiful my darling; there’s no flaw in you.” Song of Songs 4:7
It’s just that we must emulate God and look beyond the physical.
“Blessed are those who find wisdom.” Proverbs 3:13
Virgin Til Marriage
The beauty of virginity can be found in the woman’s crafted hymen. God engineered that membrane for a purpose. He wanted woman to stay chaste until marriage. That membrane is a seal that is to be broken only by the man who becomes her husband. See Sex and the Christian.
Otherwise, the many partners a woman goes through become burdensome to the point of soiling not only her body but her soul as well. Today, we call it baggage.
That baggage is not unlike weed that creeps in and spoils a well-manicured garden. It causes all sorts of emotional and spiritual problems and issues which may take years to unload. It even affects a marriage since many times the husband is at a loss to understand his wife.
“Women!” he often exclaims.
Indeed, women should realize that the moment they give up that precious commodity to a man outside the marriage commitment, their leverage for that man to stick around is lost. In other words, they relinquish something precious for nothing positive.
If all women kept their virginity until marriage, the happy side effect would be that guys would also keep theirs and avoid the same emotional and spiritual baggage or garbage.
The Yearning For Fatherhood
Just like woman was created with the desire to nurture, man was also created with his own particular yearning, that of having his seed materialized into his own children.
“Abram said, ‘Sovereign YAHUAH, what can you give me since I remain childless…’ ” Genesis 15:2
Abram/Abraham’s reaction was quite profound. He basically told God that no matter the riches He bestowed on him, it wouldn’t matter since he had no children.
“…children are an heritage of the YAHUAH: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” Psalm 127:3
When a man is incapable of producing his own offspring, at the very least a son who can carry his name and his seed upon the earth, he feels impotent and unfulfilled.
The desire to have children from one’s own loins is kindled by God Himself. One can even go as far as saying that such a desire is even more important for the man than for the woman.
“Children’s children [are] the crown of old men; and the glory of children [are] their fathers.” Proverbs 17:6
In general, biblical women like Rachel and Leah had no trouble nurturing the children of their husbands born of surrogate
mothers. They considered them their own. Their need to nurture was fulfilled anyway.
However, a woman today would rather adopt
a total stranger than help her husband fulfill his own yearning to have his seed become fruitful. Basically, if she’s not the one to make it happen, it won’t happen. This should not be. See Can a Man Have Many Wives?
Adopted children are not the adoptive parents’ real offspring, and to have these kids call their caretakers “Dad” is simply deceitful. Fathers are only fathers when the children who call them “Dad” come from their loins. See Of Adoption and Surrogacy.
Beware of social reengineering!
” ‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the YAHUAH.” Isaiah 55:8
|A typical saturday in Ojai, a lesbian couple out and about, by the hundreds